When Should You Meet Your Sugar Daddy After Communiction Online?
When should I physically meet my sugar daddy? How long after establishing contact on a sugar daddy website, is it okay to arrange a physical date? The answer to this question differs for many people, and really, it should because people are different and so are their preferences. As a general rule of thumb, we suggest taking out time to know your prospective sugar daddy in conversation first and to get comfortable with him before the first meeting. This is an essential step to avoid getting entangled with a narcissist or fraudster.
Firstly, we believe that it all comes down to communication and compatibility. Are you compatible? Is there good chemistry and rapport between you two? You don’t want to go on a date with someone who you can’t hold an engaging conversation with; else the entire evening will be punctuated with awkward silences and boring polar questions. More importantly, do you feel comfortable with him and with the idea of meeting him? Does he unsettle you? “Many times, trusting your gut is the way to go,” as one sugar baby puts it.
Emma from Salt Lake City says “there isn’t some golden rule book of sugar daddy dating, neither are there any regulations concerning when or where you should meet your sugar daddy. The most important thing is that he is who he says he is online, that you trust him and you enjoy spending time with him. You should enjoy sending time with your sugar daddy, because if you both are going to be in a relationship for mutual benefits, then you are going to be spending quite some time together. You should also remember to relax, breathe and have the time of your life.”
Additionally, we suggest that you adhere to general rules for personal safety when meeting your sugar daddy for the first time. Firstly, you should meet in a public place at least the first time. This eliminates the possibility of getting into a sticky situation just in case your sugar daddy isn’t who he says he is. If you discover that your sugar daddy looks nothing like his profile photos, the wisest thing to do may be to call the date off. Do not allow your personal needs and expectations lure you into a relationship with a fraudster; on that note, asking to see some ID is a great way of ensuring that a sugar daddy is who he says he is. On every date, it is recommended that you bring your own money along because really, you do not know what can happen. Do not spend time alone with a sugar daddy that unsettles you, and if you a must (after you have confirmed his identity), let a trusted friend know where you’re going and the identity of who you’re meeting.
Finally, remember to smile, let your hair down, and have fun. Being in the position of a sugar baby is indeed a once in a lifetime opportunity, one which slips away alongside youth.